1. Religion & Spirituality

Discuss in my forum

Mary Fairchild

What is True Love?

By , About.com GuideFebruary 12, 2010

Follow me on:

My parents are in their seventies now. After more than 50 years of marriage, they are still in love. I think it's safe to call their love a "forever love."
True Love
Image Courtesy of John P.
They still hold hands and make each other giggle. For their 50th wedding anniversary, I wrote a poem for them, in honor of their enduring love. They taught me and my four siblings a lot about love. In fact, each of us are married, in love, and committed to making it last forever. We too have found true love.

My parent's relationship is not perfect. They still have arguments and get on each others' nerves at times. But their love goes deeper than just romantic love, it's a reflection of God's love (Ephesians 5:25). It is so powerful because it points to the one and only perfect example of true love - God.

The Bible says in 1 John 4:16, "God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in him." (NLT) God is the author of love (1 John 4:8). His perfect love casts out all fear (1 John 4:18). God demonstrated his unconditional love by sending his son, Jesus Christ, to sacrifice his life for us (Romans 5:8). Now that is true love!

On this Valentine's Day, as you express appreciation to your loved ones, it's fitting also to spend some time with your perfect true love, the Lord God.

Valentine's Day Meditations on True Love:

Comments
February 13, 2008 at 2:11 pm
(1) jacky says:

Really heartening to hear God bless and keep you all

April 15, 2009 at 4:58 pm
(2) misterious LOVE says:

i like the poem it was great
and the reason i like it cause im trying to see if im really in love.
i hope you can help me and asnswer that question. i need to know what it mean so i can know when to say i love someone that i really adore.
thank you and i love what you wrote about your mom and dad

February 9, 2010 at 2:25 am
(3) kp says:

i really liked the poem it’s so touching and educative.i wish all parents where like that

September 10, 2010 at 3:09 pm
(4) Confused says:

I am so confused about love. I know what the Bible says about love and what it is however I’ve realized this is not the way I love all the time. I am able to show the kind of love described in 1 Corinthians if I feel like I am not IN love. He can’t do anything to hurt me because I’m not emotionally involved/attached so I’m able to be patient & kind. And when I feel like I am IN love (emotionally involved/attached), I am not able to show the kind of love described in 1 Corinthians. This is not love but emotionally, I feel like I am in love. I’m so confused!

March 25, 2011 at 5:47 am
(5) tataperonilla says:

I love your poem!..God Bless you!

March 25, 2011 at 8:57 am
(6) Mary says:

Thanks! He has!

Leave a Comment

Line and paragraph breaks are automatic. Some HTML allowed: <a href="" title="">, <b>, <i>, <strike>

©2012 About.com. All rights reserved.

A part of The New York Times Company.