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Practical and Biblical Advice for Christian Marriages:

Marriage is a joyous and sacred union in the Christian life. It can also be a complex and challenging venture.

If you're seeking Christian marriage advice, perhaps you're not enjoying the blessings of a happy marriage, but instead, merely enduring a painful and difficult relationship. The truth is, building a Christian marriage and keeping it strong requires work. Yet, the rewards of that effort are priceless and immeasurable. So before you give up, consider some godly Christian marriage advice that may bring hope and faith into your seemingly impossible situation.

5 Steps to Building Your Christian Marriage:

While loving and lasting in marriage does take deliberate effort, it's not all that complicated or difficult if you start with a few basic principles.

Learn how to keep your Christian marriage strong and healthy by practicing these simple steps:

5 Steps to Building Your Christian Marriage

What Does the Bible Say About Christian Marriage?:

No doubt, marriage is an extremely important issue in the Christian life. Vast numbers of books, magazines and marriage counseling resources are dedicated to the subject of overcoming marital problems and improving communication in marriage. However, the ultimate source for building a strong Christian marriage is the Bible.

Add to the basics by gaining a deeper understanding of what Scripture says about Christian marriage:

What Does the Bible Say About Christian Marriage?

God Didn't Design Marriage to Make You Happy:

Does that statement shock you? I've taken the idea right from the pages of one of my favorite books on Christian marriage. Gary Thomas asks the question in Sacred Marriage, "What if God designed marriage to make us holy more than to make us happy?" When I first considered this nugget of a question, it began to completely reposition my perspective, not just on marriage, but on life.

Dig deeper to discover the divine purpose of your Christian marriage:

God Didn't Design Marriage to Make You Happy

Top Books About Christian Marriage:

A search of Amazon.com turns up more than 20,000 books on Christian marriage. So how can you narrow it down and decide which books will best help you in your particular marriage struggle?

Consider these recommendations from a list I've compiled containing a wealth of marriage resources from leading Christian books on the subject of marriage:

Top Books About Christian Marriage

Prayers for Christian Couples:

Praying together as a couple and praying individually for your spouse is one of the most powerful weapons you have against divorce and in favor of building intimacy in your Christian marriage.

If you're unsure how to get started praying together as a couple, here are just a few Christian prayers for spouses and married couples to help you take the first step:

Prayers for Christian Couples
A Marriage Prayer

Couple's Devotional Bibles:

Several years ago, my husband and I accomplished a feat that took more than 2.5 years to complete! We read through the entire Bible together. It was a tremendous marriage-building experience and one that strengthened our relationship with each other and with God.

If you're interested in giving it a try, consider using one of these couple's Bible reading aids:

Couple's Devotional Bibles

10 Reasons Not to Have Sex Outside of Marriage:

Current movies, books, television shows and magazines are full of impressions and suggestions about sex. We have examples all around us of couples engaging in pre-marital and extra-marital sex. There's no way around it—today's culture fills our minds with hundreds of reasons to just go ahead and have sex outside of marriage. But as Christians, we don't want to simply follow everyone else, we want to follow Christ and his Word.

Know what the Bible says about sex outside of marriage:

10 Reasons Not to Have Sex Outside of Marriage

What Does the Bible Say About Divorce and Remarriage?:

Marriage was the first institution established by God in Genesis, chapter 2. It is a holy covenant that symbolizes the relationship between Christ and his Bride, or the Body of Christ. Most Bible-based faiths teach that divorce is to be seen only as a last resort after every possible effort toward reconciliation has failed. Just as the Bible teaches us to enter into marriage carefully and reverently, divorce is to be avoided at all costs.

This study attempts to answer some of the most frequently asked questions about divorce and remarriage among Christians:

What Does the Bible Say About Divorce and Remarriage?

What is the Biblical Definition of Marriage?:

While the Bible does not give specific details or directions about a marriage ceremony, it does mention weddings in several places. Scripture is very clear about marriage being a holy and divinely established covenant.

If you've ever wondered what exactly constitutes a marriage in the eyes of God, you'll want to keep reading:

What is the Biblical Definition of Marriage?

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