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By Mary Fairchild, About.com Guide to Christianity since 2005

Loneliness: Toothache of the Soul

Wednesday June 21, 2006
Are you a single Christian battling with persistent feelings of loneliness?

As one who spent many of my adult years as a single Christian, not marrying until the age of 31, I can say that I've experienced my share of loneliness. I spent four years on the mission field. During that time of singleness I had what I consider, a "break through" in the area of loneliness.

One thing that contributed to finding peace and fulfillment in the midst of singleness was reading the book, The Path of Loneliness: Finding Your Way Through the Wilderness to God, by Elizabeth Elliott. Living in a foreign country and not being able to communicate through the language of my heart, I discovered my loneliness conducting me into a much deeper intimacy with my Savior.

In his article, Loneliness: Toothache of the Soul, Jack Zavada examines the very same principles that helped me overcome a deep sense of loneliness. Check out this excerpt:
    "Loneliness is one of life's most miserable experiences. Everyone feels lonely at times, but is there a message for us in loneliness? Is there a way we can turn it into something positive?"
Jack Zavada is a Christian writer and hosts a Web site for Christian singles called Inspiration-for-singles.com. Never married, Jack understands how single life can be difficult, but believes that Jesus, who also never married, offers understanding and compassion for the unique feelings of loneliness and frustration that singles often experience.

Comments

July 23, 2008 at 10:57 pm
(1) Maureen says:

H’mm,

You have some good thoughts and give some helpful links for those of us who are single.

However I think living as a single until the grand old age of 31 isn’t truly having lived as a single!

Try say 55-60?? Then you can say you have experience living your life as a Single Lol!

Blessings and thanks for trying.

August 10, 2008 at 3:24 pm
(2) Sheilah says:

I agree with Maureen! I’m 52 & never married.

October 5, 2008 at 5:12 am
(3) Robin says:

Why you never got married?

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